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Moving/Will miss my birds (1 Viewer)

I am a bird lover since I was a little girl. I have always been a backyard birder too and I would say the past seven year, since we moved to Tampa, near the river, backyard birding has become my absolute passion.

After both of my basset hounds died from old age, my backyard birds really became wild pets to me.
I have many feeders, some exclusively for specific types, like worm feeders for Carolina wrens, peanut feeders for my chickadees and titmice and thistle feeders for my winter goldfinch visitors that come back year after year., and on and on and on.
My neighbors aren't interested in feeding birds but they often comment on how my yard sounds so lovely with all of the many different bird songs.

But now we are moving about 30 minutes north of Tampa and I have to say goodbye to my beautiful birds.

I knew it would be hard but I had no idea how hard. I watch my cardinals and wrens, blue jays and woodpeckers, year after year raise their young in the bird houses and shrubs I've provided for them and watch them eat from the feeders and plants that I planted solely for their benefit.

Everyone tells me the same thing, "You'll have new birds at your new house." This is true but I will miss MY birds. Birds have personalities and watching and caring for them day in and day out has formed a very strong bond.

I really don't know how to say goodbye to them.
I'll be living here for close to another month and I've read to cut back on their food little by little, so they aren't too alarmed when I leave. This is very very difficult.

I'm learning the more you love, the more it hurts to say goodbye. Even with wildlife.
 
Maybe leave a note for the next tenant to ask if they would be willing to keep feeding the wildlife. I bet the birds who you have welcomed and accommodated in your yard will miss you in some ways. Even though you may have to leave them behind, you will still undoubtedly be able to create the same sort of connections with your new garden critters.
 
Maybe leave a note for the next tenant to ask if they would be willing to keep feeding the wildlife. I bet the birds who you have welcomed and accommodated in your yard will miss you in some ways. Even though you may have to leave them behind, you will still undoubtedly be able to create the same sort of connections with your new garden critters.
This is a great idea! I will also leave some feeders and food for them too. You never know.
 
I am a bird lover since I was a little girl. I have always been a backyard birder too and I would say the past seven year, since we moved to Tampa, near the river, backyard birding has become my absolute passion.

After both of my basset hounds died from old age, my backyard birds really became wild pets to me.
I have many feeders, some exclusively for specific types, like worm feeders for Carolina wrens, peanut feeders for my chickadees and titmice and thistle feeders for my winter goldfinch visitors that come back year after year., and on and on and on.
My neighbors aren't interested in feeding birds but they often comment on how my yard sounds so lovely with all of the many different bird songs.

But now we are moving about 30 minutes north of Tampa and I have to say goodbye to my beautiful birds.

I knew it would be hard but I had no idea how hard. I watch my cardinals and wrens, blue jays and woodpeckers, year after year raise their young in the bird houses and shrubs I've provided for them and watch them eat from the feeders and plants that I planted solely for their benefit.

Everyone tells me the same thing, "You'll have new birds at your new house." This is true but I will miss MY birds. Birds have personalities and watching and caring for them day in and day out has formed a very strong bond.

I really don't know how to say goodbye to them.
I'll be living here for close to another month and I've read to cut back on their food little by little, so they aren't too alarmed when I leave. This is very very difficult.

I'm learning the more you love, the more it hurts to say goodbye. Even with wildlife.
I feel your pain! I recently moved but only a few minutes away and I really think my Cardinals followed me(!?) I was so depressed I started to put peanuts out, and they came. I understand what you feel because I miss my Blue Jays my woodpeckers my chickadees and my finches-even the squirrels!šŸ„²šŸ’”
 
I understand your pain. Here is my experience. We moved nearly 6 miles away from our old place. I used to feed blue jays, pigeons, red cardinals and sparrows and more birds. I missed them , then after few weeks I started putting out the same bird feeds , peanuts outside. Now lot of birds started visiting me again, To my surprise most of them are looking and behaving like my previous house birds. My pigeons are almost the same. They behave in certain way and comfortable with me. Blue jay too behaves as if they know me. They sit and look through our window, just like before. So I believe that the same birds I was feeding there has found their way here and settled in my new zipcode. I believe that birds can find us if we moved close by.
 
Hi Viki and a warm welcome to you from all the Staff and Moderators. I'm really pleased to hear that your move worked out so well.

I'm sure you will enjoy it here and I look forward to hearing about the birds you see around you.
 

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