This thread might, to some, sound like trolling - it's not meant to be, but if you feel that way, then please accept my apologies.
Anyway, I'm a birder of 25+ years experience, so I'm used to watching birds in public hides & used to the 'protocols' & etiquette that goes with using a hide. My wife of almost 5 years likes looking at birds, but by no stretch of the imagination (although she is far better than she realizes) would she describe herself as a 'birder'. Prior to meeting me she had never been in a public hide.
This afternoon we called in on the main hide of a very popular reserve 'in North West England.' A quick check of the sightings book showed that several avocets, as well as a spoonbill (both year birds for me) were about. Actually in the hide were maybe half a dozen birders (three of whom had scopes). Quite quickly, my wife asked if we could leave the hide & watch the birds from outside. When outside & I asked why she wanted to leave the comparative warmth & comfort of the hide my wife said that she felt uneasy asking me 'simple sounding questions about the birds' in front of 'all those bird watchers with all the proper equipment.' My wife is not unused to being in a public situation (she teaches), nor is she a shy retiring teenager (she is in 'late middle age'), so being with strangers is not normally a problem. Nor were we without 'proper equipment' (not that that has anything to do with anybody else) as we both had binoculars with us & the only bit of my normal birding gear not with us was my own scope.
So, are public hides places that occasional or non birders feel unwelcome & uncomfortable, or was my wife just unlucky today?
Anyway, I'm a birder of 25+ years experience, so I'm used to watching birds in public hides & used to the 'protocols' & etiquette that goes with using a hide. My wife of almost 5 years likes looking at birds, but by no stretch of the imagination (although she is far better than she realizes) would she describe herself as a 'birder'. Prior to meeting me she had never been in a public hide.
This afternoon we called in on the main hide of a very popular reserve 'in North West England.' A quick check of the sightings book showed that several avocets, as well as a spoonbill (both year birds for me) were about. Actually in the hide were maybe half a dozen birders (three of whom had scopes). Quite quickly, my wife asked if we could leave the hide & watch the birds from outside. When outside & I asked why she wanted to leave the comparative warmth & comfort of the hide my wife said that she felt uneasy asking me 'simple sounding questions about the birds' in front of 'all those bird watchers with all the proper equipment.' My wife is not unused to being in a public situation (she teaches), nor is she a shy retiring teenager (she is in 'late middle age'), so being with strangers is not normally a problem. Nor were we without 'proper equipment' (not that that has anything to do with anybody else) as we both had binoculars with us & the only bit of my normal birding gear not with us was my own scope.
So, are public hides places that occasional or non birders feel unwelcome & uncomfortable, or was my wife just unlucky today?